I don't think stretched engines are allowed
Allowed only in the replica challenge.?
Correct, only in replica challenge. But I encourage you to shrink them if you can.
Your boosters seem to have the right height (31.5m, rounded off) and width (3m, rounded off).
I think there's some improvement you can do with the wide "skirt" at the bottom of the boosters, it's bigger in yours than in real life.
I might be wrong, but are there not wider side cones that you can put on top of the boosters? They look a bit wonky right now.
The core stage is trickier. Wikipedia says 24m high (rounded off). And yours is longer.
But the cut-away diagram I linked showed the core stage is about as long as the boosters after you include the engine and interstage.
So what I would suggest now for the length of the core is:
Leave the bottom of the core where it is.
Move the second stage up as long as the separator will allow, I think it will be able to go up 1 or 2 more blocks before the separator interstage disappears.
Additionally extend the core until in total it is as long as the boosters.
Post again.
The diameter of the core... You are already using 10 block wide tanks, yes? That's 5m, which is not the real 5.4m diameter of the core stage...
5m seems to be as close as you can get if there is no 11 block wide tanks, so ok.
That just leaves the second stage and fairing.
The second stage should be 4.7m high, which should round off to 4.5m.
Yours is about 6.5m long, much too long.
You could reduce the length by putting a 2m long broadsword engine instead of the 3m long frontier engine you currently have. And reduce the tank length, etc.
Then the fairing should add 26 blocks or 13m to the height, with an extra 1 block that overlaps the second stage.
Post your rocket after you have made all these improvements and found what the new height of it is.