I think the forum has always been a more daunting place to start off, because of not just the higher standard but also because it is so small and there's nowhere to hide. There's less to look at and so things get scrutinised much more.
Before I made my profile up here, I was actually kinda nervous about making one and posting/contributing/asking questions because everyone knew each other and the builds were waaay beyond what I was capable of.
Example, like, you're talking noob MOAR BOOSTAz rockets, check out the first 'heavy lift' rocket I built after purchasing the DLC:
Check out the TWR on this puppy...
Granted, this is without a payload but I was only getting 150t to LEO with it. But, it's what I was using and managed to assemble my original space station (as seen as the staging area in my first videos) with it. Even back then I didn't want to share it because it's shit.
I just didn't know
why it was shit and how I'd make it better.
And it was that fact that was why I joined. I was making my now infamous spreadsheet thanks to Scott Manleys video, but needed to speak to actual people about things to make it work properly. And back then (as it is now) that help was freely and patiently given (they know who they were).
Is the forum even less welcoming now? You could argue both ways, and I've said my piece elsewhere on the subject. But I still genuinely do not think that it is overtly and unnecessarily toxic. For every 'hitpiece', there's 10 posts helping people out or offering re-builds. I still believe here
is the best place to learn, even if that does mean it has leant slightly away from 'casual' usage towards more 'serious' territory. I wouldn't say entirely though, there is still a vast amount of 'comedy builds' mixed in with the ruthless efficiency.
But not as the standard for the Forum
I'm not sure it became the standard across the forum. But then, I also don't see why that is an issue. It's just a definition man. What is so wrong with saying 'returnable' if that is what your spent stages do? It doesn't make your rockets worse or your builds pointless and there's no need for such melodrama over it. Personally I think your returned stages are impressive as fuck, especially the larger ones.
It's the same as if a rocket only works with infinite fuel or the drag glitch. Doesn't make a rocket pointless if that is what it does and how you use it. But you can (if you wish) also strive to do better to make a legal build and there are many, many people here willing to not only help out, but from a position of real knowledge rather than TWR 2 hearsay, a fact that makes this place unique.
The only time I have an issue with such rockets is when they try to make claims and undermine work people have done on making things legal or abide by a definition like 'smallest to place' or 'most weight to location' etc. That's not to say 'illegal' rockets are crap either.
But they shouldn't be placed in a box with legal builds and the same goes with re-use/return. The level of planning, building and execution are totally different. It's not to say one is totally pointless because the other exists. But they should be kept separate, as they are separate from 'throwaway' builds, in recognition of the additional complexity required without it being taken offensively or diminishing the work that's being done.
What I'm trying to say (in my long form way) is thus. I very,
very rarely land or recover things in flight. Boosters, ETs, spent stages, I drop the lot and leave them to smash into the ground. I also don't plan on de-orbiting spent stages after use and just 'self destruct' them once the injection stage has separated. That doesn't mean when I see Altair de-orbit
everything because he doesn't like orbital debris or using the destroy parts function, that it suddenly renders my rocket obsolete. It doesn't mean when I watch Blazer landing 500t boosters or Cosmo assembling 1.5km long colony ships that I suddenly feel inadequate because I've wasted 80% of everything that's ever left my launchpad. And also not just because I
can do total re-useability and view all this from some sort of technical 'superiority'.
Far from it.
It's because I know that a definition is an objective standard to attain, not a personal attack on someones abilities, and shouldn't be viewed as such. Some people can do it, some people can't do it
yet and that's as deep as it goes.
What do you guys think, we ban me? I'm gonna be honest, I'm the one who made ambition a rule of thumb.
Yes, I
definitely think we should ban you. Someone get the hammer!
From a personal perspective of how friendly and open the forum was/is, I'll say this. I've been visiting for 2 years and a member for over 18 months. Some people reading this I consider as not just fellow gamers and intellectuals, but also friends whom with I chat with on and offline about more than just engines and firearms.
But before the present day, waay before I became the mememaster, and even before the rise of Horus Wafflecal, I was just a tourist on zero messages, zero likes and the first thing I did was PM TtTOtW and Altair asking questions. One was about multi-engine ISP calculations (a concept that i'd not had any luck with anywhere else), the other was about where I should post the first iteration of my spreadsheet. You can imagine to whom each message went.
At no point then or in the 3100 messages (some of which has been pretty damn controversial) since have they (or anyone else for that matter) been reluctant, rude, dismissive or anything other than completely helpful towards me.
The first direct message I got on here was from Mr/ Ambition himself handing me an unsolicited (and pretty difficult) rover challenge. But it wasn't in a rude, or 'you think you know rovers? I'm the rover king, try and match me n00b' way. It was a 'you're decent, but you can be better. Here is how' way. And prove me wrong, but for all of his...zealotry...for ambition and occasional lack of tact, you'd be hard pressed to find occasions where he is being an uncalled for dick about it. And I know for a fact the amount of time he puts into improving people around here. Maybe it's a bit too forced, but I'll never say it's from a position of malice of snobbish superiority.
The forum isn't perfect. Could it do with a bit of a throttle back, reduce the pressure a bit so we can go further up? Yeah.
But toxic? Nah. I wouldn't come on here day in, day out if it was.