Also I think ion engines have higher isp compared to irl ion engines (correct me here Altair)
Actually no, real ion engines have their specific impulse around 5000 seconds, this is much higher than ingame. However their thrust is extremely low. Even a prototype like the X3 produced 5.4N of thrust against 1.5 tons in SFS, which is... 14700N
And for the X3, it's for an input of 100 kW of electric power, which would need something around 180 m² of solar panels to produce.
Real ion engines are that efficient, but because of their low thrust they need a very long time to change noticeably a trajectory. And of course, no injection/insertion burns with them, and no easy landing on any body (even Deimos!).